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Let’s Concentrate!

February 8, 2022 · Infertility Resources, Yoga


Last week we introduced the sixth limb of yoga — Dharana — focus. Concentration seems simple on the surface but as yoga goes it’s more about letting everything else fall away.

Candle Meditation

  • Grab a candle. A real one is better than a battery operated one, but both will work fine. You could also use a looped video of a flickering candle flame.

  • Find a place where you can sit upright comfortably. Grab any pillows or blankets you need to support your practice.

  • Dim the lights and shut the shades to a level that is comfortable. The darker, typically, the better.

  • If time is of the essence, set a timer for 20 minutes. If time is not an issue, sit as long as you would like.

  • Set up your candle at a comfortable distance from where you’re sitting. Set it up on a table, chair, or stool to make it eye level or just slightly below eye level. If using a real flame, make sure it’s stable and all fire hazards are away.

  • When you’re ready, sit comfortably, blink a few times, relax the shoulders, and bring your focus to the flame.

  • Notice the colors of the flame, how it dances, and the shapes it makes.

  • You may have thoughts that wander in. In that moment, acknowledge that you’ve had a thought and bring your attention back to the flame. This bouncing back and forth between thought and the flame will soon come to an end.

  • Continue to stare at the flame and keep your eyes open, trying not to blink excessively.

  • Overtime, notice how the flame becomes the only part of your focus, and then becomes the only thing you see, maybe it even becomes part of you.

  • When you are ready, blink your eyes several times and slowly make your way out of your seat. If you feel compelled, take a moment to write down what you noticed and felt in your journal.

This meditation is a great way to practice the sixth limb of yoga and deepen your level of concentration. Come back next week when we talk about the seventh limb of yoga.